That I would never ever say to anyone… maybe to that someone after he said ‘I do... I do... I do… do… do… do…’ in front of the Tok Kadi…
If ever a man said that to me… that would be the end. If ever a man said that to me during my 8 to 9 course of life, I might sue for sexual harassment. LOL!
But what if it was said by some married woman to another married man? For some it may be just a compliment, or freedom of expression or freedom of whatever but it's for me a moral issue.
My friend shared what her friend said to her. He said that girl nowadays have to play it aggressively. According to him, some woman would do just anything to get a man. Just anything. And she without hesitation told him that if that is the case, she passes!
One of my friend will ym or fb chat me on Friday at 1800, for most of the time. He would tell me to go back… chill out… basically to have a life. LIFE! Just like today… and I’m almost answer him ‘xpe, aku kn loser…’
If I did, I would felt worst than a loser itself. I did not think or want to be one but it’s likely than I’m living a life of a loser. Working late on most of the day especially FRIDAY and my weekend would be either going back to my parents place or office. Does that spell L-O-S-E-R?
Loser; No need to pretend to be one… because it’s LOSER!
Life is much more than pretending to be a LOSER, or wanting to be a LOSER, or thinking whether or not you are a LOSER or a Loser times two.
Hypothetically, I’m fine with my life. I’m happy. Can loser feel happiness? If can, I can be a happy loser… LOL!
The truth is, I knew he was looking at my direction… he might be eyeing my pink Tupperware or my baju kurung… my baju kurung might remind him of someone… and I did catches his eyes… of course I did because they said your body can sense if some eyes are looking at you... but I did nothing… not even a courtesy smile… So, that was it. We never bump into each other again after that afternoon. I don’t even know if he is still in the building next to my office building. I don’t even know which level is his office. I don’t even know if he drives to work. Or if he park his motorcycle in front of my office building. Or maybe he took the subway to works. I might know his breakfast time… it 0845.
But, I heart to believe that possibilities are endless.
Hye, I’m 23, a divorcee with a 5 year old boy. My ex-husband woke up one day and realizes that he can’t do it anymore.
Hye, I’m 28, a divorcee with a 2 year old boy… he is so like his daddy… my late husband died in a car accident.
Hye, I’m 27 years old, married with 2 kids. What’s more to tell? I’m living a dream!!! LOL!
Hye, I’m 34, yet to be married…
Hye, I’m 40 and live with my 2 cats. It’s so good coming home late at night and having nobody to answer to…
Hye, I’m 29 years old… single and available. Marriage? If a man is a way to get a child, I prefer to adopt.
Hye, I’m at whatever age I’m now… single and I want to be married yesterday. Not tomorrow, not next week or next month. But maybe 2 years down the road… only when a man can be less of whatever they are now…
What is perfection? 11/10? I can’t think of any thing I’ve done or achieved so far that is perfect. it’s not easy. But, we demand for perfection. Can we have perfection?
To have the so called perfect life, we need a perfect someone to be the perfect husband/wife… that is the most perfect plan. We live our life with the thought of wanting that perfect someone to be the perfect whatever. It just so hard to consider just any someone could be that perfect whatever. Indeed!
What we don’t realize is that perfect someone could be forever to be found until we can keep the perfection aside. Don’t worry; sooner or later such perfection would fly through out of the window… yes, it when all the whatever-list become just a nice smile/any nice man.
And you sure don’t want to finally have to justify your spouse-less self with ‘there is not even someone in this tiny little world who is perfect to fit in my so called perfect plan.’ But if you have, best of luck then…
My perfect list? Erm, I’m going to have to amend it... LOL!!!